My eyes go deem, my mouth stop moving, my leg shaking, and the world rotating around me; this was how I felt the first time I saw a beautiful Angel. I was at the Pam Shopping centre in Liki Lagos with my friend James for weekend shopping when I meet this beautiful Angel. My friend said “you haven’t seen anything but beauty in your eyes (my own way)”.
I immediately confronted him “what you mean by that”. His reply was that “she is not as pretty as you acting out”. Well ahead, this thought came into my heart “One man’s food another man’s Poison”. Could he be right? or I might as well be dreaming of him saying that to me or maybe he wants the girl and trying to deceive me out of his way?
Well I was wrong my friend seems to be uninterested, and I could be well dreaming of the beauty; another thought then said within me to give it a trial.
Finally I tried and was amazed by the well arranged articulated speech my beauty reply with, “good afternoon, I saw you and your friend steering at me all day, waz up with you, and how could I be of a good help to you” I gave an instance reply “many ways my dear, but first your name” “Angel” I then look at my friend (James) what he could be doing right then after greetings from my beauty, his resolved remained unchanged. I then hop into discussion with my beauty, oh my good God she was amazing as the pounded yam that my Mum prepared for my Dad which happened to be my best food, but my other brothers seems to dislike it. I then concluded the saying “One man’s food and another man’s poison”.
How correct is this statement? How compelling does it sounds in your ears? To say a little but delusional! As this only implies when someone dislike what others like, does it means that since my friend don’t like my beauty, it now means she is poisonous to him or have we gone too far foolish to conclude without elaborate reasoning. Does it means; if I dislike what others love, it becomes poisonous to me. However this last paragraph was written to provoke you to react.
Thank you for Reading
18 comments:
well to be honest with you ...your friend could in fact had been interested in the beauty for himself. But on the other hand your friend may have been looking at the outer beauty while you were looking elsewhere. My only advice to you is to take the chance and see what progesses from the whole ordeal. What is the most could happen......a baby (lol). Just be careful and take some of your friends concern into consideration. Here the saying is one mans trash is another mans treasure, but to each its own. I would just pray on it and ask God if this woman is for you, ask him to take her from you if she is not for you. You shall receive confirmation soon, just pay attention to the signs.
Stay cool and let me know if you fall for her ;)
Oh yeah, it beat my mind to an ease level when advise like yours is on my mind, the great ordeal remains that my friend lack interest, because he has had many heart break. However I don't play with his advice
Thank you Kin'Shar
You remain one in a million
One persons heartbreak is their own. What ended their relationship may not be what is suited for yours. Let me ask you.... how has it been thus far? How are you attending to her and vice-versa?
First let me tell you ...when I meet a man I look to see if he is one that I want to be real with or just for keeps. What category did you put her in? Also if he is someone that I want to be real with ...I need to know that. So you have to sit back and watch her. Her body language tells alot. How does it feel when you are very close to her? I mean kissing distance but without the kiss. But if she is something thats just for keeps then it doesnt matter what she, he, or you feel. But you should respect the lady and tell her that you only want frienship. She may want more!
Well still waiting and studying the whole thing before deciding the next step, as i want to step one leg before the other one.
Thank you,
You cares and I love it
May God continue to bless you and your family
shalom!
Ok that is the best. Becareful and stay loving.
Give me the greasy stuff at the end ....lol
Always, yes i will
Thank you
so tell me what came of the girl?
Ouch, did I tell you she is based in Sweden, oOOH poor me that was what I find out later, you know, “she took all my tonic and went on a long journey that the future finds difficult to predict”.
Well we keep communicating without end, I believe she cares but distance is keeping us apart.
Thank you for the asking
You are really the best friend I have after Jesus Christ (I mean God Head)
I feel like building my world around love, but love seems so fragile, with mercy and unending pain in my heart, when will I find rest in love, “should I build in tears and rip in joy or build in joy and rip in love?”
Am finding it hard to answer the questions Life post to me
wow, really....that is so so nice to say. I could see us being best friends. I love to confine in someone that I can trust and vice-versa. So for now I must tell you that because she is so far away it doesnt mean that the two of you cant resolve the distance issue. Distance shouldnt hinder your hearts decision.... if it is finally true love that you have sought then love takes over all and you will find yourself doing the unimaginary things...hint hint!
I am smiling now because I think you should know what the hints are!!!
Anyway just take it easy and if she was meant to be then she will be. I need you to remember something and keep this close to your heart. God makes everything happen for a reason....whether it is good or bad. You have to make sense of the bad and turn it into something good. If she is not meant for you then God will take her away from you, and that is what you should ask of God. So dont look at the distance...she's away for Godly reason and only God knows. But you will know the final say-so at the end.
Take care of yourself, and dont stress...ok sweets! ttyl
hint hint!
what is hint thing all about, really, I will amaze you one day.
just watch out for a really wonderful thing
hinting around...meaning doing all the things for love that you wouldnt ordinarally do or that is out of your norm. If you love this girl then she will make you do flips.....lol. Flip over anything that she will ask of you. You need to assure that she feels special and number one at all times. Women are like chocolate....we cant be exposed to the heat (madness), you have to open carefully (caressing), you cant waste any of our contents (attention),and you must consume the whole thing (communication). You have to remember that with her and you will have her where you want her. Treat her well and a women is sure not to leave you. Once you have scorn her...you have bruised her for life. Women never forget whats hurts the most.
Im sure your a cool guy that knows what to do in this situation...but again the hint hint is listed above....read it again. ;)
Thank you,
at my age now, I don't mostly play with ladies,
I really want to keep her, but that depend on her, i mean if she loves me as I do, or as i will always do,
Then nothing to argue about.
Yes it a game of win and loose but I don't want her to loose either, let love keep deciding all
hmmm, Toni I am reading you and what you are telling me that you love this girl...You love her already, is this what you are feeling, and have you told her that yet. If you havent you should tell her no matter how early the relationship starts. Who knows...there will be a close reunion soon.
Love is not what to play with,
Yes I did love her, what about mine security?
what security are you speaking of....I am confused. Again, I think you should tell her that you love her. Maybe you could convince her to come back to Nigeria to marry you and start a family.
Well I guess you know what is best for you.....sorry I havent been in touch for a minute, how are you?
I mean my heart,
I have a very fregil heart the react painfully to heartbreak and all that, so am very much concern about my heart as I guide it with all deligence, because out of it comes the issues of life.
Thank you
I mean my heart,
I have a very fregil heart the react painfully to heartbreak and all that, so am very much concern about my heart as I guide it with all deligence, because out of it comes the issues of life.
Thank you
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